Tuesday, November 07, 2006

Pehla Thokar !!!

Nothing special for the world...Just a casual day....

- A lonely uneventful drive to office (despite leaving home early , it took me 50 full minutes !!! )
- A casual well spent afternoon
- A few compromises with self ... :( , Sometimes heart does take over the mind.
- A mind full of thoughts, ideas and questions.
- A tired self, simply waiting to vent out all the left over energy into the world.
- A nice evening drive back home...
- A 'chota sa thokar' with an Auto, (neither of us or our vehicles were harmed). It was more of- yes...We did collide(okay that word is an exaggeration !!!) but hey we are okay!!! :)

Take homes ::

- I hate men on road who say "abbe yaar yeh ladkiyan drive kyon karti hain...Its not their cup of tea !!! "
- If the vehicle stops mid way, I'd tell ppl behind - "Chill bade miyan!!! Ruk gayi to ruk gayi...Any sensible creature would as much wanna move as you do, STOP honking !!! "
- Sometimes, drives of emotions make u utter and do many things in life. Before you speak or do anything important in life, THINK a million times. Sometimes impromptu decisions don't work. And once you have thought it out and kept your foot forward, never ever repent your decision. Remember the reasons you gave yourself when you took the decision, believe in them.
- Never leave the keys to your happiness, or to your integrity in someone else's hands. Nobody would take care of them as well as you do !!! Nobody !!
- All females, please drive carefully on the road, and ensure that you prove all those men who look at women driving n exclaim "Naah!! She can't be as gud as me !!! "- wrong :)

Somehow, this day, does get earmarked in my autobiography (hopefully someday I'll author one) !!!

6 comments:

Niks said...

Taking each comment one at a time

1)
I said this " there are some things which women are good at and at some things men are, e.g. driving"

Your interpretation that - "abbe yaar yeh ladkiyan drive kyon karti hain...Its not their cup of tea !!! "
is NOT EVEN WRONG !!! ( there are three degrees - > wrong, completely wrong , not even wrong)

2) If the vehicle stops mid way, I'd tell ppl behind - "Chill bade miyan!!! Ruk gayi to ruk gayi...Any sensible creature would as much wanna move as you do, STOP honking !!! "

- Ppl would and should do it even louder .. scope for mistakes on a ROAD ! naaaaaa .. no one will tolerate ... except the guy who is sitting next to you .. who inspite of all will try to chill you - by saying - " Chill Madamme, .. dont give any heed to them .. No one is around "
Now its upto you to whom to listen and respond or crib.

3) "Naah!! She can't be as gud as me !!! "
No one means this .. but you would have to prove men something to get over some other preconceived notions. I accept there are, but you should also accept that usually they are right ! :)

Deepthi said...

Hey...Nothing personal abt it...It was a general feedback...CHILL... :) Absolutely no reference to u !! :)

Niks said...
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Niks said...

Hey , U got it wrong .. .
It was in response to the general feedback only , i dint took anything personal ... i was also taking of "girls" in general
U too take n that spirit ... and respond :)

Anonymous said...

A 'chota sa thokar' with an Auto, (neither of us or our vehicles were harmed)
I have always felt that these things happen at the end of a long tough period. When you've had a bad time, and it keeps playing on your mind, disturbing, upsetting, going on and on... until one day, it ends in something like this. (Of course, there could be a simpler, much more logical explanation. That you learned driving in 7 days :-) )

If the vehicle stops mid way..
I know this feeling all too well. So one of the things i learned very early is how to start the car and get moving in 4 seconds flat. But then again, 7 days is too little a time.. :-)

And once you have thought it out and kept your foot forward, never ever repent your decision
Completely agree. Everytime theres a decision to make, you have to analyse all possible situations and take a decision. Then stick on to it cause you had to make the decision anyway and you did it the best way you could. And i have always believed that its better to go with your consience and regret it later than go against it and regret it.

Never leave the keys to your happiness, or to your integrity in someone else's hands
Our thoughts seem to match quite a lot. Savage Garden, in their song called Affirmation, say 'I believe we place our happiness in other peoples hands'. Initially when i started listening to this song, i never gave a second thought to it. But of late, i have come to realize the truth and significance of that statement. We would be far happier if we didn't give others the key to our happiness. But easier said than done, isn't it?

Somehow, this day, does get earmarked in my autobiography
Somehow, i knew it would. And i'd love to read your autobigraphy.

Dolly Dwivedi said...

hee hee..loved this one. had me laughin. very true! :)